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  • Hey Sequester. Suck My Quester.

    I work at a government funded nonprofit based on spreading health awareness of good nutrition, safe sexual health, health research, and providing programs to promote these advances in health, nutrition, and medicine. And because of the sequester, that means that our budget has been cut by a good amount. To the point where if no deal is reached and enforced by May, all employees will be cut back to a 4-day work week and we will not be paid for that non-work day (Paid time off cannot be applied to it either). I also don't think our pay will adjusted to these changes either. And, this is just one cutback, with more surely to follow.

    It does put a slight damper on my future plans, like saving up to get my own place as well as paying off my student loans faster. I'm just not looking forward to what other cuts might be implemented. I am at least glad for now that the bosses will not budge on their position of laying off anyone (they won't and are looking for ways to ensure that).

  • Ben Bits 7 (I think it's the seventh one)

    1. I'm feeling better from what happened Sunday, but I do also feel bad for overreacting. I'm on my quest to finding my means of personal happiness again.

    2. On the topic of personal happiness, everyone has a different way of obtaining it. Some paint, some read, some even go shopping. I think I want to get back into video games. It's been a long time since I was able to play my PS3, but during the times when I did, I remembered being happy, immersed into the fantasy world to get away from reality for a while, and to put some more fun into my life.

    3. On the topic of video games, I need to buy a TV. I wonder if my parents would help me out by transporting it this weekend. I don't want to carry it on the subway because I don't want to, you know..... die. If they aren't too keen on my getting a TV, I might invest in a Nintendo 3DS. I know that I want to eventually get one (Pokèmon X and Y coming out in the fall) and so it can help soften my woes when I'm by myself bored.

    4. I'm starting to cut processed sugar out of my diet again. I did that when I lived by myself and I dropped a few pounds. Ever since I moved in with my uncle and aunt, and that they try to feed me a large amount of food, I think that at least cutting a lot of unnecessary sugar out will help. My pants are getting tight around my waist, so that's a legit reason.

    5. I love you guys.

  • Happy Pi Day!

    What's your sine? Must be pi/2 because you're the 1.

  • A Chinese Delight (Joke)

    @olwd would probably like this joke.

    A husband and wife went to try out a new Chinese restaurant that just opened up in town. They sat down, looked over the menu, and both decided that they would like to try the Chef Special chicken. The waiter took their order, and about 10 minutes later, brings out a decorative clay pot and places it on the couple's table. As they were drinking their wine and chatting away, the husband noticed the lid to the clay pot lifting up slightly and a pair of eyes looking around from underneath it, just descending back into the pot moments later. The wife asked what was wrong as she noticed a perturbed look on his face. "I could have sworn I saw a pair of eyes looking out from inside that pot," he said. The wife brushed it off as him just seeing things. As they finished up their appetizers, the husband once again saw the lid lift and the eyes peering out. This time, he called to his wife and she saw the eyes too before they retreated back into the pot. The husband called for the waiter and when the waiter asked if they needed something, the husband replied, "Yeah. This pot is freaking us out. We saw a pair of eyes inside it looking out and around." The waiter, confused, asked what they ordered. "Chef Special chicken." Suddenly, the waiter stated, "Ah. Our mistake. I brought you Peking Duck."

  • Plenty of Fish

    Calling upon the wisdom of @Lives4Waffles, @jennylovve, and anyone else who has dove into the sea with the fish of plenty.

    For over a year, I have only been using OKCupid. I kinda refused to get another account on another site because I didn't want to clutter myself with too many. But, as of lately without too much luck on OKCupid (I've only ever met 4 people from it in person), I thought about putting OKCupid on hiatus and trying out Plenty of Fish.

    What I need is your experience on it, how it differs from OKCupid (if you used it too), which one you prefer using, and your success rates. Especially from guy users so I can get a better perspective on if it would beneficial for me to make an account.

    Enlighten me, ol' wise ones.

  • Some Things I Need to Work On (Rewrite)

    After last night's phone call, I've learned a little more about myself (and discovered some new and old things I need to improve on). I was expecting to explode on her last night, but it's a good thing that I didn't. We were able to talk things through and clear up what was causing the lack of the communication (or at least give me an understanding of it). While some of you don't think so, I think I did overreact yesterday. Yes, I understand and still agree that it is rude not to respond back to someone after a long while. But, I also have to learn that some people have a hectic schedule and sometimes, the best they can respond back is a little bit later. She does understand, however, that she made the mistake of assuming I understood her situation. She also promises to reply back whenever possible. However, I do have some things to reexamine and improve about myself:

    - Whatever it is that gets pent up inside me, find a way to release it without causing any damage. Sometimes, it can be anger or frustration. Sometimes, it can be sadness. Whatever it may be, I need to find a way to just let it out. 
    - I need to refocus on developing my own means of happiness. I know that this one would be a little tough for me. I like to be around people (most of the time). I like to connect with people. I get a lot of happiness when I interact with others. But, because I drew such a large amount from others, it leaves me no chance to discover what I can do by myself to unwind and find my own center of self contentment. Maybe I do need to buy a TV and play videogames again.
    - Understand that the world doesn't revolve around me. I've been pretty good about this until recently. And I don't want to lose sight of who I am in a world of others. Everyone has their own life situations to take care of. I can't be selfish and demand their attention whenever I please and expect them to drop whatever it is they're doing. There's been a while where I hated to communicate with people because I hate bothering people. During that time, I also openly accept others who wished to interact with me. I need to find a balance in between. 
    - Understand that even when I haven't heard from someone for a while, it doesn't mean that they are ignoring me. This one was probably the thing I realized last night. This goes back to the previous point where people have their own life to tend to, and sometimes, they simply are running around trying to complete so many tasks at once. 
    I also need to work on my patience. I strive on being patient with people, and I at least hope people can be patient with me. We're all a work in progress. But we're all also in this together. 
  • She got a chance to call me back. And everything has been cleared up and settled.

    Honestly, I think that I overreacted. But, she also admitted that she was fault too for not following up on her texts. I was a little upset with her, but then later, I was upset with myself. The thing that made me so was because I do take my friendships and my relationships with people seriously. I do my best to maintain what I have with people in my life. BUT, what I failed to realize or get through my head is that not everyone is built that same way that I am. It doesn't mean that she doesn't value her relationships with people. She has different things going on than I do, and I can expect her to handle her life the same way I do. That would be selfish of me. 
    The thing that I wanted to accomplish was to get the communication thing cleared up (and we did). I now am trying harder to take into consideration that her (and many others) have different things going on in their lives (jobs, school, volunteer work, family, etc.). She also is now made aware that even if she is busy, she shouldn't assume that everyone knows about her busy schedule and respond to texts (even if it's just one saying how she's doing and that she's busy at the moment). 
    Again, I think I blew it out of proportion, and I apologized to her about that. This world doesn't revolve around me. I never wanted to make it all about me anyways. And for that past few days, I did. So, I disappointed myself. I have a lot of work to do with myself... but for now, things are cleared up between the two of us. 
  • Something That's Been Annoying Me...

    The girl that I've been talking to for that 3 month period... we haven't talked for a while. That's nothing strange, seeing that there are friends that I have not talk to in a while either. I guess the difference between the two is that with her, I have sent a few messages just to say hi and see how she's doing; yet, they go unanswered. The ones I do send to other friends are usually responded to within minutes to a few hours. I think the last time she talked to me was over a couple weeks ago. 

    I get that she's busy: work, school, and volunteer. But, I think that at least she would have a few minutes to just say hi back. Especially when she has time to poke me on Facebook several times in an hour. I guess it also bugs me that she was the one to insist that we stay friends if the whole dating thing didn't work out. So, why isn't she even making an attempt then?
    I've been told that maybe she said "can we still be friends?" just to soften the blow. I half believe that and half don't, because when she said it, she sounded very... sincere and almost heartbroken if I would have said no. 
    Maybe I'm just being very unreasonable here. I just take my relationships with people seriously. But, maybe it's a sign that I need to go back and rekindle some older ones. 
    I'm still deciding if I need to confront her about it. I don't want to argue, but it's something that's been bugging me.
  • Mocking the News, Part 4

    U.S. job seekers tested positive for drug uses have reached its highest rate since 2007. The most common drug found in these positive drug tests was marijuana. (source)

    Labs also found lots and lots of Taco Bell in the applicants' stomach.
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    Venezuela has announced that they will preserve Hugo Chavez's body and will have him on permanent display so "his people will always have him." (source)
    They are still currently deciding between a traditional standing position or a "jumping in the air and getting ready to high-five" set up so his followers can high-five back.
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    Mayor Michael Bloomberg has recently shown his dislike for movie trailers in an interview with M magazine. He said, "I sat through an hour of trailers, and every one was stupider than the other. And then there were these ads for video games - for adults! And you want to know why we're dumbing down politics." (source)
    To combat this, he has signed legislation that states movie trailers shown in NYC must be no longer than 16 seconds long.
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    An estimated 3,000 to 5,000 Legos have spilled over Interstate 79 in West Virginia this past Sunday. (source)
    Sauron has also announced a new defense spending plan for Mordor by buying bulk supplies in Legos and equally displacing them around the surrounding area.
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    A kindergarten teacher in Sola, Norway has been terminated for having her dozen plus students sampled her blood from a vile she brought to class. (source)
    I don't know if a joke would be in bad taste or not.
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    Saks, Bergdorf Goodman, Bloomingdale's, and Century 21 are currently in hot water with the Humane Society for failing to provide labels for fur coats after a 5 month investigation. New York state law requires all real fur products be clearly labeled with the kind of fur and its origin. (source)
    Investigators were surprised that they didn't find horse meat in the fur coats and disappointed that they couldn't join the horse meat scandal bandwagon.
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    EA's SimCity is on its way to being labeled the "worst rated product ever on Amazon" as well as one of the worst debacles in gaming history. With an "online only" play mode, server crashes, and no lessons learned from the Diablo 3 fiasco, many customers are asking for a refund as well as having a petition to remove the "online only" feature. (source)
    EA is basically the video game version of Michael Bay, ruining your childhood one production at a time.
  • More Asian Racism

    Everybody remember the Alexandra Wallace incident where she made a public rant video about Asians in the library? Well, I think I found her boyfriend.... and he's stupid as fuck. (I didn't link the actual video, but instead a rant response by one of my favorites, David So).

    The thing is, I laugh at and make a lot of jokes against Asians, but the way this guy does it.... isn't actually funny at all. I'm not offended at his racist remarks, but instead disappointed at his piss poor attempt to be funny. Some of those points don't even make sense: he doesn't want to be Asian because Asians are good at math? 
    David sums it up very well anyways. 

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