Month: July 2013

  • A friend and I usually get lunch almost every work day. But recently, for reasons unknown to me, our lunches keep getting later… and later… and later. I’m usually told 2 o’clock, but I always wait for her text as when to head out. Flexibility of my job is that I can take lunch whenever. With her job, I don’t know. It’s 3 right now and I haven’t had anything to eat except for coffee and water, while waiting for her to respond back. Like usually, she mentioned 2. Then she said she needed to take care of a small task. That was half an hour ago. I’m slowly poking at her to know when she’s ready.

    Honestly, I’m ready to set a time that if I don’t hear from her, I’m going to lunch by myself. I feel guilty doing so, but I’m hungry and frustrated.

    Don’t keep Ben from eating. He gets cranky.

  • And It Has Come To This…

    With only a little more than 24 hours left, I’m not sure really what the fate is for Xanga 2.0… even though we haven’t quite reached that desired mark. There is still time to donate.

    However, I want to say…
    Thank you. Thank you for reading, for listening, for commenting, and just being around. Xanga has taught me a lot about others, and also about myself. I have enjoyed your company, and I hope you have enjoyed mine. If you wish to keep in touch, here are some ways you can keep in contact with me.
    This isn’t goodbye; just a “see you later…”
    With love always, 
    Ben (Duckie)
  • The End Days

    We’re only about 5 days left before the fate of Xanga 2.0. We are currently at a little more than $15,000 left before they reach their goal. Is it possible to have $3,000 every day? Not sure. But, if you haven’t already, or wish to pledge more, please do! 

    And whether or not we make it, I want to thank those who have been a part of my Xanga family. I hope that you guys can stay in touch with me, so please check out my contact post on how to connect with me! You can also find my Stalk Me post. 
    @isitreal_no , @ElusiveWords , @mellywelly15 , and anyone else whom I may have missed. 
  • Stalk Me

    As we’re nearing closer to the inevitable end of Xanga, I want to give some means of finding other ways to stay in contact with me!
    __________________________
    My Facebook: You can click there, or go to the Xangaville Facebook page and search for Ben Tsang. 
    My WordPress: theduckie.wordpress.com . I might not write as much yet until the July 15th on there, but it’s here for you to follow (and for me to follow you back!). 
    My Writer’s Cafe: Another writing site that you can find me at.
    Email and Google Chat: ben.s.tsang@gmail.com
    Skype: itssaibon
    If you would also like my number to text, just send me a private message. 
  • Haircut

    This weekend was a time where I gave some things a try. I gave the club another shot at my friend’s birthday weekend; I had a lot of fun. Last night, I went to my cousins’ for dinner. I also decided to let them cut my hair.

    My cousins are brothers and are 19 and 15, respectively. They have been giving each other haircuts for a couple years now, so it wasn’t like they were going in blind. I decided to let them take a crack at my hair. I’d say they did a good job.

  • Weekend (Updated and Rewritten)

    This past weekend, I went down to the beach for my friend’s birthday. It was me, her, and two of her other friends. I can say that this weekend was usually different than how I would spend most of my times out with friends. 

    For the first day, we got to our hotel pretty late like around 5 – 5:30. After checking in, we spent a little bit of time on the beach to get our first hint of color. Afterwards, we went to a beach front bar where they had a live DJ. The breeze was really nice since it was by the water, and it was crowded as expected. We also went to a club next door called Ivy. It used to be another venue, but was damaged after Hurricane Sandy. They’ve rebuilt it into a slightly upscale bar and club. This is the part where it’s usually not like me. I’m not much of a club person. However, it was my friend’s birthday and to me, it’s not where you spend the time, but who you really spend it with. We danced in Ivy for about 2-3 hours. Yes… I danced. Imagine me…. dancing. Don’t get me wrong, I like to dance. But, it usually happens more at weddings than say a club. However, I did enjoy myself. Did I also mention that I did this sober? I do drink, but not really to the point where I’m oblivious to everything going on around me. After Ivy, we grabbed some late night pizza and got back to the hotel around 2 – 2:30 in the morning. 
    The next day, we spend a good 2-3 hours at the beach getting some more color on. This is pretty much the first time of the year where I went out to tan in the sun. Hopefully, I didn’t burn. Afterwards, after showering back at the hotel, we went to a rock venue to listen to a jam session. The first band was really awesome. They were Go Go Gadget. Their Myspace is the only place that has music, but it doesn’t do them any justice to how awesome they performed. Not only were they musically inclined, but their selection was really awesome. It ranged from playing new variations like a hard rock version of Macklemore’s Thrift Shop to some middle school classics like Fat Lip by Sum 41 and My Own Worst Enemy by Lit. A lot more dancing going on at the venue and, I saw a random blonde hair girl eyeing me down. I knew she was looking at me because I saw her talking to her friend and pointing at me. Then, 10 seconds later, she came up and started dancing with me. So, I bumped and grinded and twerked with her for a good minute. Then she walked away after saying thanks. Afterwards, we went back to Ivy and the beach front bar. However, the birthday girl was exhausted from the jam session so we didn’t stay out as late as the night before. However, we did go back to the rock venue around midnight, and Go Go Gadget was playing again. They were doing Power Hour where they played non-stop. After about 25 minutes there, we retreated back to the hotel. 
    One unfortunate thing this weekend: While navigating through the crowded club and leading my friends towards the exit, I ran face first into a guy’s sweaty pit.
    It was a fun weekend, and I went out of my shell a little bit. I really enjoyed the jam session (which I think it’s more of my scene than say the club). Hope you guys had a great weekend. 
  • Xanga Radio (Updated)

    Hey guys.

    When the news of Xanga possibly closing down came to fruition, Alex (@roadlesstaken) started a talk radio with fellow Xangans to discuss, well, just about anything.

    I joined in the discussion on Wednesday, July 17th along with @Smile4Leena. You can listen to the recorded podcast. To do so, click here on this link or visit Alex’s radio post here. I may have done something silly/weird/sexual. Care to find out?

  • Sex Video Game

    A friend and I are exchanging texts on how we think a video game based on sex will pan out.

    “I’m a Level 68 ‘Missionary!’ When I level up, I can learn a new move!”

    “My Foreplay skill is maxed out!”

    “+15 XXXP! Stamina has risen to 30!”

    “Condom equipped. +99 Defense!”

    So… how are you guys today?

  • And Now For Something Different…

    My friend was in Austin, TX for the weekend to attend a film festival/competition hosted by Spill Dot Com. Awesome to say, he won (again) this year! He did a parody of 28 Days Later (a zombie flick). I’ve posted the video down below (and you might even see a cameo from someone!)

  • I also found out I lost 3 pounds. But, it’s mostly from a stomach bug from Friday to today, as well as added stress on top of it. But, I guess I’ll make the best of it.

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